Dumbek and his boyfriend celebrated their 10th anniversary on Friday. (Dumbek said, “Lord you know they made a fine connection,” which you might have noticed is also the title of this post, and that’s from a song.) Dinger, Dumbek’s boyfriend, posted about the soundrack of his life. For a lot of us, the music of the Grateful Dead is the soundtrack of our lives, which may be why we quote their lyrics on our blogs.
Me, I’m in a mixed relationship (in spite of which, we’ve got a fine connection), but I definitely like seeing two deadheads connecting.
Brian is moving in, officially (i.e., his stuff is moving in) on Monday, and we’re spending the weekend packing up his apartment and making the final preparations in our apartment. I’ll finally get my crap out of the Brian room and put it away, and I’m going to pull a network cable through the wall so he can have access to the internet in there. The cable connections are in the living room. If we hard wire his computer to the cable modem, through a router (rather than use WiFi), he’ll get a 100 mbs connection. Besides, his older G4 Macintosh isn’t WiFi ready and neither of us wants to deal with that.
We went to his friend’s party last night, which was a big cigarette smoking fest. Such a disgusting anachronism! But his friend also gave a recital on his harpsichord (yes, the guy owns a harpsichord and knows how to play it), which was fun (and people didn’t smoke as much while he was playing), and I got to talk to some interesting people.
I visited my aunt in the hospital this afternoon. She’s doing well after her knee replacement. I saw my friend Lex on the street on the way over there, since that’s his neighborhood. It always brightens my day when I run in to him.
Tonight, we had a fire in Brian’s old apartment (he decided not to renew the lease, which ends at the end of the month, so he won’t be subletting it), and we’re going to sleep here one last time. We watched Home at the End of the World on In Demand. (In keeping with the recent theme of “everyone in Chelsea is connected,” I should point out that Michael Cunningham, who wrote the novel and screen play for Home at the End of the World, is one of the people we see around from time to time, both here and in Provincetown.) The movie intensified my desire to experience mushrooms with Brian, which happened to have been the topic of conversation at dinner tonight. He’s not totally on board with the idea. “It’ll deepen our connection,” I said. “We’re already connected,” he responded.
Lord, you know, they made a fine connection.